877. Men need consequences: Why modern dating is so broken with Adam Lane Smith

0:00So you won't know when you're gonna blow up.

0:01You won't know what's making you sad.

0:03You won't know how your relationship is doing.

0:05You won't know anything.

0:06You are blind and you're heading for another fire and explosion and you're gonna hurt the people around you.

0:11And then I tell them this.

0:12The woman in your life is right to be afraid of you if this is how you manage your emotions.

0:16Earlier you said timing is everything for a conversation.

0:19I agree with that.

0:20But I think relationship conversations should not take longer than three minutes or something's wrong, right?

0:25The five-hour conversations are death.

0:27I don't respect you anymore because of this.

0:30Until this changes, I will not be able to respect you.

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