Dear Life Kit: How much advice is too much advice?

0:00I tell them once, I say my piece once, and after that, that's on you.

0:03Because when you start nagging them, it's not your job to nag them.

0:07You told them, you led the horse to water.

0:08Will the horse drink it?

0:10I don't even know how the idiom goes, but you know what I'm talking about.

0:13Or will the horse die of thirst?

0:15Let the horse, let that money go.

0:17Let the horse die of thirst.

0:19You stopped short of saying let the horse die of thirst, I want to say for the record.

0:22Did I say that or Andy said that?

0:24I'm throwing Andy under the bus.

0:25Is that the end of the idiom?

0:27That is so dark.

0:30Hey, it's Marielle Segara and welcome to another edition of Dear Life Kit, where we answer your questions with help from the collective wisdom in our life kit archives.

0:40Reporter Andy Tagel is here.

0:41Hey, Andy.

0:42Hey, Marielle.

0:43And we've also got our digital editor, Malika Greave here.

0:46Hey, Malika.

0:47Hello.

0:48So I'm going to get right into it.

0:50Our first question is Dear Life Kit.

0:54I work in unclaimed property for the state.

0:57I have several friends who have unclaimed funds.