(BEST OF) Why You Keep Having the Same Fight | Dr. Alexandra Solomon

Jul 30, 2026 · 59 min · YouTube

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0:00Welcome back to We Can Do Hard Things.

0:02Okay, Pod Squad.

0:04We have a hunch that there is an exhausting question that shows up in every relationship eventually.

0:11And it is this.

0:12How much of loving someone is accepting them exactly as they are?

0:18And how much of loving someone is pushing them to grow?

0:23Do we accept and surrender?

0:26Or do we try and push?

0:29Maybe it's your partner, maybe it's your family, maybe it's your friends, maybe if we're being honest, maybe it's ourselves.

0:36In this episode, Dr.

0:37Alexander Solomon helps us untangle one of the most common relationship dynamics, the changer and the acceptor.

0:45The one always asking, what if we could do better?

0:48And the one saying, what if what we have is already good enough?

0:52And what she shows us is that neither role is the problem.

0:56The real work is understanding the old stories, fears, and wounds underneath each of them.

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